Funeral poems for Dad

When your dad has died, you might want to honour his life and legacy by reciting a memorial verse or poem at the funeral service. During a difficult time, it might be a struggle to find the right words to express what he meant to you.

Whether you are looking for inspiration to help you pen a few special words in an eulogy or looking to something meaningful to say, here are touching collection of funeral poems and memorial verses for a dad that can help.

If – by Rudyard Kipling

Written in the form of advice from father to son, this philosophical poem (or a verse or two) by Rudyard Kipling can be dedicated to an inspiring father who lived by these words and inspired others to do the same. It is a powerful choice of a funeral poem for Dad.

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,

But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,

Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,

And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;

If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with triumph and disaster

And treat those two impostors just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,

And stoop and build ‘em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch;

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;

If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute

With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run—

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,

And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

A verse from Shakespeare

Perhaps your dad was known and admired for his courage, grit and honesty.

This Shakespeare quote for a funeral, taken from a speech by Mark Antony in Julius Caesar, could be a great choice of funeral verse for dad.

His life was gentle; and the elements

So mix’d in him, that Nature might stand up,

And say to all the world, “This was a man!”

What is Success? – By Ralph Waldo Emerson

This quote from American philosopher and essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson can easily be used as short memorial verse to start or end an eulogy for dad.

It might specially resonate with those whose life has been touched by their father’s desire to make a difference to other people or the wider community.

What Is Success?

To laugh often and much;

To win the respect of the intelligent people and the affection of children

To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends

To appreciate beauty

To find the best in others

To leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition

To know that one life has breathed easier because you lived here.

This is to have succeeded.

When Through One Man – by Alfred Delp

These words written by Jesuit priest Alfred Delp are perfect if your father touched people’s lives with his loving and caring personality

When through that one man

A little more love and goodness, a little more light and truth comes into the world,

Then that man’s life

Has had meaning.